It may very well be that guys who cheat do not need anger from their women but compassion. Before you attack me, allow me to share a little bit about first love.
The lucky few among us are forever enamored with our first love. So totally enraptured were we by the partners relation with us that had an elixir been created out of our feelings during those times, the search would be over for the philosopher's stone by now.
Like everything great however, First love may become addictive. Relationships once the novelty wears off may become demanding rather than enjoyable. At those times one yearns for the unpredictability of a new thrill. The thrill of a fresh hunt and the hunt for that vulnerable, hearty and trance like moments which are so very much in abundance at the start of the relationship.
Once you're hooked on that, like any other addict you cannot help but yearn for your addiction. Ultimately the quest for the satisfaction of that addiction is mutually exclusive with the quest for a relationship.
At this moment, you don't then need a lecture about how all men are dogs, just an intervention to get over an addiction.
not that i know anyone like this though...
